Who will be dominating after marriage men or women ?

Who will be dominating after marriage men or women ?
If more number of planets are posited in 3-4-5-6-7-8 houses as compared to 9-10-11-12-1-2 houses ,then the spouse will be dominating  the native.
If more number of planets are posited in 9-10-11-12-1-2 houses as compared to 3-4-5-6-7-8 houses ,then the native will be dominating his/her spouse.